Try this: write down your question on a piece of paper, in the form of a letter to God.
Then sit quietly in meditation and prayer and speak your question to God, as if you were speaking with a friend.
Then, open up your Bible and see what God has to say to you about your question.
Can you find a message that He wants to share with you, to give your guidance, comfort, and the answer you're looking for?
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